Some say love...

When I am dating or in a committed relationship, I want to be in a honest relationship.   I want to be with someone who is truthful and will always be there for me. I hope to find a man who will accept me for who I am and someone who will always treat me with love and respect.

 There are several songs that talk about love.  One example is "Just the Way You Are " by Bruno Mars.  One of the lyrics is "when I see your face/ there's not a thing that I would change/ Cause, girl, your amazing/ just the way you are. " Here is he saying that he will always love his girlfriend no matter what she looks like and he says she is perfect just the way she is.  Another song is Adore You by Miley Cyrus. In this song, Miley is talking about how she loves someone so much that no mater how much they love her, she will always love and care about them even more.  Katy Perry's song "Unconditionally" is another song about love.  In the lyrics, she says "there is no fear now/ let go and just be free/ I will love you unconditionally." Katy is saying that she will always love this person unconditionally and whole-heartedly.  Another song is "Young and Beautiful" by Lana Del Rey.  In this song, she sings about wondering if her significant other will love her no matter how her looks change as she gets older. The last song I chose is "Honeymoon Avenue" by Ariana Grande.  In this song, she sings about wishing that things were back to the way they used to be when they were completely in love with eachother and in a honeymoon-like stage.

I believe that there are some people who are soul-mates.  I do not think everyone has a soul-mate but I think that some people are just meant to be together.  I also think a soul-mate is not someone who completes you.  I feel that everyone is complete the way they are, but having some who is meant for you only would make you have a strong and loving relationship.

Gender

1) When I was little I was used to the idea that girls are supposed to be polite, wear pink and play with dolls/barbies.  Boys on the other hand were supposed to be tough, play sports and show less emotion when it comes to things like crying or being sad. I was never directly taught these ideas from my parents, but it was something that I noticed in preschool and kindergarten.

2) I have two younger brothers, and they were never dircetly told to behave in a certain way.  I remember a few times when my brother Joseph was younger that my dad would try to force him to play sports and he would not want to. Eventually he started playing basketball, and ended up really enhoying it. Ever since I can remember, I have always been a girly girl.  This is mostly from my mom's influence on me.  When I was younger, my parents liked the fact that I wa a girly girl, but they also supported me when I played soccer.  My parents were never that pushy on me and my brothers when it came to behavior based on our gender.

3)I think that going to the Mount has allowed me to view gender in a very postive way.  The Mount teaches us to be empowered women who can do anything that a man can do. This way of teaching has allowed me to see that as long as I work hard and try my best, I can pursue any career that I want to strive for.

4) In a romantic relationship, I think that is nearly impossible for gender to have absolutely no role. When I get married, I want to be treated equal to my husband, but I also want my marriage to be a little bit traditional.  While I want to have a successful career, it is very important that I one day become a mom.  I want to be able to spend time at home with my kids, but also maintain my career.  Most importantly, I want to be in a happy relationship where my husband and I love, support and respect one another.

Miss Representation

After watching the flim Miss Representation, I have learned how much of a role the media has in depicting the image of women.  I always knew that the media had an impact on young girls, but I never knew how much it affected them. Also, I have seen how women are sexualized in the media, but I never knew that it was to such a great extent. I also thought that it was awful how even women in congress are treated unfairly.  Even though they are highly respectable, successful women, men make incredibly rude and disrespectful comments about them. 

In this film, it seemed like whenever there were women who made a name for themselves, men wanted to degrade them and show that they have more power. In the workplace today, I think that men and women are treated pretty equally, but most of the time men have it easier. I think that if a man and a woman are trying to get a job position, the higher up the job is, the more likely the man will get it. If the position is lower, I think that they would be treated equally, but it if it were for a higher position, men have a better chance of getting the job. Even though men sometimes have it easier, women are the ones who are usually more qualified.

I think that going to the Mount has taught me to be a strong and independent woman. The Mount teaches all of their students to work hard and be proud of being a woman. Going to the Mount has taught me that our education is what will improve our society.  Even though there are still some prejudices that women face in the world today, I think that they will one day be gone when media and society realize that woman are equivalent to, if not better, than men.

My Mission Statement

My mission in life is to be become the best person that I can be.  I want to live life to its fullest.  I hope to be happy, and make others around me feel the same. I will strive to do good for myself, while doing good for others.  I want to have a successful career that I love.  I will continue to strengthen my relationship with God.  I want my faith to grow with me as I get older.  I hope to affect those around me in a positive way.